The conventional image of "real men" as macho and sexually confident is only partly a true one. In fact, a lot of men feel anxious about sex, whether on a one-night stand or in a long-standing relationship. Unsure of what women want, and feeling a pressure to achieve peak performance every time, men often feel dejected and inadequate when reality doesn't live up to their dreams. Bernard Zilbergeld has studied male physiology and has talked to many men about their "problems" and emotions. This book aims to restore male confidence by explaining how men's sexuality really works.