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1 The History and Foundation of Interpersonal
Communication
OVERVIEW
WHY STUDY INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION?
WHAT EXACTLY IS INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION?
Mass or Mediated Communication
Organizational Communication
Small Group Communication
Intrapersonal Communication
Interpersonal Communication
AN OVERVIEW OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF INTERPERSONAL
COMMUNICATION
Irreversible
Not Communicating Is Difficult
Transactional
Evolving
Relational/Content Components
Process
Effective Communication Is More Important
than More Communication
Relationship Building
Shared Meaning
Other-Oriented
Nonverbal Messages
Nonverbal Messages Are More Believable
Abide by Rules When Interacting with Others
Learned Skill
HISTORY OF INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION THEORY
OVERVIEW OF THE TEXTBOOK
SUMMARY
ACTIVITIES
REFERENCES
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2 Verbal Communication
OVERVIEW 24DEFINING VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Rules
Symbols
Subjectivity
Context
FUNCTIONS OF VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Cognitive Functions
Social Reality Function
Group Identity Function
Social Change Function
VERBAL COMMUNICATION STYLES
Direct/Indirect
Informal/Formal
Clarity/Equivocation
Powerful/Powerless Language
PERCEPTIONS AND VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Credibility and Status
Bias Communication through Language
VERBAL IMMEDIACY
Message Design Logic (MDL)
FACTORS AFFECTING VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Life Span
Sex Differences in Verbal Communication
Contextual Differences
BEST PRACTICES: AVOID VERBAL PITFALLS
Clarity
Appropriateness
Concreteness
SUMMARY
APPLICATIONS
Discussion Questions
ACTIVITY
REFERENCES
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3 Nonverbal Communication
OVERVIEW
DEFINING NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
HOW IS NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION DIFFERENT
FROM VERBAL COMMUNICATION?
HOW IS NONVERBAL SIMILAR TO
VERBAL COMMUNICATION?
EIGHT TYPES OF NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
Facial Communication
Kinesics
Haptics
Proxemics
Paralanguage
Physical Appearance
Artifacts
Chronemics
FOUR FUNCTIONS OF NONVERBAL MESSAGES
Facilitate Cognitive Meaning
Encoding and Decoding Emotions
Express Affection and Support
Aid in Impression Formation/Identity Management
BEST PRACTICES: AVOID COMMON NONVERBAL
COMMUNICATION MISTAKES
Common Areas of Miscommunication
Nonverbal Messages and Social Influence
Practice Sending and Receiving Nonverbal Messages
Recognize Differences in Nonverbal
Communication Perceptions
FUTURE DIRECTION FOR NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION:
ELECTRONIC PARALANGUAGE
SUMMARY
APPLICATIONS
Discussion Questions
REFERENCES
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4 Formation and Maintenance of Identity
INFANTS
Physical and Motor Development in Infancy
Perception in the Newborn
Cognitive Development in Infancy
Social-Emotional Development in Infancy
CHILDREN
Cognitive Development in
Childhood: Piaget's Theory
Children's Social-Emotional Development
ADOLESCENTS
Physical and Sexual Changes
Adolescent Egocentrism
Identity Formation
ADULTS
Erikson's Stages of Adulthood
MAIN POINTS
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5 Social Influence
DEFINING CHARACTERISTICS OF PERSUASION
WHY STUDY PERSUASION?
WHERE AND WHEN DO WE PERSUADE?
PERSUASION AS ONE OF MULTIPLE
FORMS OF INFLUENCE
ATTITUDES, VALUES, AND BELIEFS
Personality Traits and Persuasion
Research on Message Variables
Cognitive Dissonance Theory
Ego-Involvement, or Social Judgment Theory
The Theory of Reasoned Action
The Theory of Planned Behavior
Elaboration Likelihood Theory
Compliance-Gaining Message Selection
Cialdini's Persuasive Heuristics
Preventing Persuasion
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6 Interpersonal Conflict
UNDERSTANDING AND ENHANCING
CONVERSATIONS
Opening
Feedforward
Focus
Feedback
Closing
CONFLICT AND NEGOTIATION
What Is Conflict?
How Can Conflict Be Managed?
Conflict Management Styles
THAT'S DEBATABLE
Factors Influencing Conflict Management
Confirmation and Disconfirmation
Negotiation
HONE YOUR SKILLS IN CONVERSATION AND
CONFLICT MANAGEMENT
Skills for Difficult Conversational Moments
Skills for Coping with Conflict
HIGHLIGHTS
APPLY YOUR KNOWLEDGE
REFERENCES
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7 Initiating Relationship
OVERVIEW
THE ROLE OF COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIP
DEVELOPMENT
RELATIONSHIP DEFINED
The Nature of Relationships
Deciding to Make the First Move:
Why We Initiate Relationships
DEFINING INTERPERSONAL ATTRACTION
Physical Attractiveness
Social Attractiveness
Task Attractiveness
Proximity
Similarity/Homophily
Goals
INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION THEORIES:
HOW WE INITIATE RELATIONSHIPS
Starting the Conversation
Social Penetration Theory
Uncertainty Reduction Theory
Predicted Outcome Value Theory
Liking
Social Exchange Theory
Stages of Relationship Development
Relationship Initiation Contexts
The Role of Technology in Relationship Initiation
Relationship Initiation and Culture
SUMMARY
APPLICATIONS
Discussion Questions
REFERENCES
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8 Sustaining Relationships
OVERVIEW
SIGNIFICANCE OF RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE
Maintaining the Existence of the Relationship
Maintaining a Desired State in the Relationship
Maintaining a Satisfactory State
Repairing a Relationship
WHY WE MAINTAIN SOME RELATIONSHIPS
AND NOT OTHERS
HOW WE MAINTAIN RELATIONSHIPS: THE ROLE
OF COMMUNICATION
RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE STRATEGIES
RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE IN DIFFERENT TYPES
OF RELATIONSHIPS
COMPUTER-MEDIATED COMMUNICATION
AS A MEANS OF MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIPS
CONCLUSIONS ABOUT RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE
CONFLICT: A NATURAL COMPONENT
OF ALL RELATIONSHIPS
Definition of Conflict
CONFLICT CAN BE PRODUCTIVE OR UNPRODUCTIVE
IN RELATIONSHIPS
TALKING ABOUT CONFLICT
CONFLICT MANAGEMENT STYLES
Avoidance
Competitive/Distributive
Collaborative/Integrative
THE DARK SIDE OF CONFLICT: VERBAL AGGRESSION
MANAGING CONFLICT
SUMMARY
APPLICATIONS
Discussion Questions
REFERENCES
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9 Terminating Relationships
OVERVIEW
TERMINATING FRIENDSHIPS
Using Indirect Methods to End a Friendship
Using Direct Methods to End a Friendship
TERMINATING ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
Infidelity
Lack of Commitment
Dissimilarity
Outside Pressures
HOMOSEXUAL VERSUS HETEROSEXUAL
RELATIONSHIP DISSOLUTION
ASSESSING RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
DECISION MAKING DURING RELATIONSHIP
TERMINATION
Intrapsychic Phase
Dyadic Phase
Social Phase
Grave Dressing
FIVE STAGES OF RELATIONSHIP DISSOLUTION
Differentiating
Circumscribing
Stagnating
Avoiding
Termination
STRATEGIES USED TO TERMINATE RELATIONSHIPS
Positive Tone Messages
De-escalation Messages
Withdrawal or Avoidance
Justification Tactic
Negative Identity Management Tactic
REDEFINING THE RELATIONSHIP AFTER THE BREAK-UP:
REMAINING "JUST FRIENDS"
METHODS OF COPING WITH RELATIONSHIP
DISSOLUTION
CLOSURE AND FORGIVENESS
SUMMARY
APPLICATIONS
Exercise to Forgive Yourself
Exercise to Forgive a Partner
REFERENCES
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10 The Dark Side of Interpersonal Relationships
OVERVIEW
DECEPTION AND INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
Completeness
Relevance/Directness
Clarity
Personalization
Veridicality
WHY DO WE LIE?
Lying to Harm Others
Lying to Protect Self
Spare Others
ARE THERE GOOD REASONS FOR LYING?
DETECTING DECEPTION
Third-Party Information
Physical Evidence
Confessions
TO LIE OR NOT TO LIE: THAT IS THE QUESTION
EMBARRASSMENT: WHY DID I SAY THAT?
Our Role in Embarrassment
Responding to Embarrassment
JEALOUSY IN INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
Types of Jealousy in Relationships
Why Does Jealousy Occur?
Characteristics Associated with Jealousy
Gender Differences and Jealousy
Coping with Jealousy
INTERPERSONAL POWER AND AGGRESSION
Types of Power
Relationship between Power and Interpersonal Influence
Power versus Dominance in Relationships
VERBAL AGGRESSION
Verbal Aggression in the Classroom
Workplace Bullying
OBSESSIVE RELATIONAL INTRUSION
SUMMARY
APPLICATIONS
Discussion Questions
REFERENCES
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11 Intercultural Communication
OVERVIEW
THE IMPACT OF CULTURAL DIVERSITY ON
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
Understanding the Self
Technological Transformations
Influence of Demographic Transitions
COMMUNICATION COMPETENCE: FOUR CORE CONCEPTS
Knowledge
Understanding
Acceptance
Skills 20
CULTURE AND DIVERSITY DEFINED
CO-CULTURES WITHIN THE UNITED STATES
Ethnicity
Race
Regional Differences
Social Class
CHARACTERISTICS OF CULTURE
Culture Is Learned
Culture Is Dynamic
Culture Is Pervasive
HOW DIVERSITY IMPACTS INTERPERSONAL
RELATIONSHIPS
PERSONAL ORIENTATION SYSTEM
Needs
Beliefs
Values
Attitudes: Stereotyping and Prejudice
COMMUNICATING PREJUDICE
Functions of Prejudice
Cultural Value Orientations
SUGGESTIONS FOR SUCCESSFUL INTERPERSONAL
RELATIONSHIPS WITH DIVERSE OTHERS
SUMMARY
APPLICATIONS
Discussion Questions
REFERENCES
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12 Family Communication
OVERVIEW
DEFINITION OF FAMILY
TYPES OF FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
Marital Relationships
Parent-Child Relationships
Sibling Relationships
Maintenance in Sibling Relationships
FAMILY COMMUNICATION THEORIES
Systems Theory
Family Communication Patterns Theory
Symbolic Interaction Theory
CREATING A FAMILY IDENTITY
Family Stories
Family Myths
Metaphors
Themes
CONSEQUENCES OF FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
Confirmation
Rejection
Disconfirmation
COMMUNICATING INTIMACY
DIFFICULT COMMUNICATION
Family Stress
Violence and Abuse in Families
SUMMARY
APPLICATIONS
Discussion Questions
REFERENCES
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13 Health Communication
CHAPTER OBJECTIVES
DEFINING HEALTH COMMUNICATION
What Is Communication?
Health Communication Defined
HEALTH COMMUNICATION IN THE TWENTY-FIRST CENTURY:
KEY CHARACTERISTICS AND DEFINING FEATURES
People-Centered
Evidence-Based
Multidisciplinary
Strategic
Process-Oriented
Cost-Effective
Creative in Support of Strategy
Audience- and Media-Specific
Relationship Building
Aimed at Behavioral and Social Results
Inclusive of Vulnerable and Underserved Groups
THE HEALTH COMMUNICATION ENVIRONMENT
HEALTH COMMUNICATION IN PUBLIC HEALTH, HEALTH CARE,
AND COMMUNITY DEVELOPMENT
Health Communication in Public Health
Health Communication in Health Care Settings
Health Communication in Community Development
THE ROLE OF HEALTH COMMUNICATION IN
THE MARKETING MIX
OVERVIEW OF KEY COMMUNICATION AREAS
THE HEALTH COMMUNICATION CYCLE
WHAT HEALTH COMMUNICATION CAN AND CANNOT DO
KEY CONCEPTS
FOR DISCUSSION AND PRACTICE