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Dr. Garber brings his background in child and family development, his expertise as a court-appointed evaluator and his deep compassion for children's wellbeing to the task of helping us to better meet our kids' needs.  Keeping Kids Out Of The Middle gives parents and child-centered professionals alike the tools with which to:   Improve child-centered communication even among highly conflicted co-parents     Make child-centered decisions about the future of the adult relationship  'Script' adult conflict and family transition so that the kids hear one, consistent message  Answer children's painful and provocative questions  Create child-centered, post-separation, and post-divorce parenting plans  Recognize and minimize the kids' risk of being adultified, parentified, infantilized and alienated  Anticipate and respond to 'visitation' resistance and refusal    Keeping Kids Out of the Middle is both a title and a mandate.  Its about the health of the next generation.  Keeping Kids Out of the Middle is required reading in the ancient art of cooperative caregiving.","brand":"WoB","offers":[{"title":"US \/ GOOD \/ SBYB","offer_id":49565146317073,"sku":"CIN0757307116G","price":0.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false},{"title":"US \/ VERY_GOOD \/ SBYB","offer_id":51144445853969,"sku":"CIN0757307116VG","price":0.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0784\/4072\/6801\/files\/0757307116.jpg?v=1751169298"},{"product_id":"child-of-the-ghetto-book-benjamin-garber-9780578854151","title":"A Child of the Ghetto","description":"When Benjamin Garber arrived in the United States in 1949 at the age of ten, he had already lived a life most of us could never imagine having to endure. 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Emotions ran high and tempers flared. Boredom and anxiety were constant threats, and thirst and hunger were ever-present.  German troops, fighting directly above their shelter, eventually discovered the group, but they managed to co-exist with the enemy after a quick-thinking member of their group convinced the soldiers they were Polish citizens hiding from the Russians.  After being liberated in the summer of 1944 when he was just eight years old, Ben had already lived a lifetime. He was old enough to know that he and his mother had survived some experiences the rest of us will never know-but he also knew that he could now think about the future: going to school, running around with other kids, riding bikes and reading books, something he had never done before. 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