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The no-fault view of conflict in this book encourages readers to move past a \"warring brain\" mentality and toward a more cooperative \"loving brain\" understanding of the relationship. 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The complete \"insider's guide\" to understanding your partner's brain, sparking lasting connection, and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust-now with more than 170,000 copies sold.\"What the heck is my partner thinking?\" \"Why do they always react like this?\" \"How can we get back that connection we had in the beginning?\" If you've ever asked yourself these questions, you aren't alone, and it doesn't mean that your relationship is doomed. Every person is wired for love differently-with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and routines, making it possible to neurologically prime the brain for greater love and connection and fewer conflicts. 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This fully revised and updated edition also includes new guidance on how to manage disagreements, as well as new exercises to help you create a sense of safety and security, establish healthy conflict ground rules, and deal with the threat of the third-any outside source which threatens the harmony in your relationship, including in-laws, alcohol, children, and affairs.You'll find proven-effective strategies to help you strengthen your relationship by:   ·Creating and maintaining a safe \"couple bubble\"   ·Using morning and evening routines to stay connected   ·Learning how to see your partner's point of view   ·Meeting each other halfway in a fight   ·Becoming the expert on what makes your partner feel loved  By using simple gestures and words, you'll learn to put out emotional fires and help your partner feel appreciated and loved. 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