{"product_id":"come-together-book-emily-nagoski-9780593500835","title":"Come Together","description":"\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eNEW YORK TIMES\u003c\/i\u003e BESTSELLER * From the author of \u003ci\u003eCome as You Are\u003c\/i\u003e and co-author of \u003ci\u003eBurnout\u003c\/i\u003e comes an illuminating exploration of how to maintain a happy sex life in a long-term relationship.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\"Emily Nagoski is a national treasure--helping us all understand how to finally build true, joyful, confident sex lives.\"--Glennon Doyle, author of \u003ci\u003eUntamed\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e In \u003ci\u003eCome as You Are,\u003c\/i\u003e Emily Nagoski, PhD, revolutionized the way we think about women's sexuality. Now, in \u003ci\u003eCome Together,\u003c\/i\u003e Nagoski takes on a fundamentally misunderstood subject: sex in long-term relationships. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e Most of us struggle at some point to maintain a sexual connection with our partner\/s or spouse. And many of us are given not-very-good advice on what to do about it. In this book, Nagoski dispels the myths we've been taught about sex--for instance, the belief that sexual satisfaction and desire are highest at the beginning of a relationship and that they inevitably decline the longer that relationship lasts. Nagoski assures us that's not true.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e So, what is true? \u003ci\u003eCome Together\u003c\/i\u003e isn't about how much we want sex, or how often we're having it; it's about whether we \u003ci\u003elike\u003c\/i\u003e the sex we're having. Nagoski breaks down the obstacles that impede us from enjoying sex--from stress and body image to relationship difficulties and gendered beliefs about how sex \"should\" be--and presents the best ways to overcome them. You'll learn:\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e * that \"spontaneous desire\" is not the kind of desire to strive for if you want to have great sex for decades\u003cbr\u003e * vocabulary for talking with partners about ways to get in \"the mood\" and how to not take it personally when \"the mood\" is nowhere to be found\u003cbr\u003e * how to understand your own and your partner's \"emotional floorplan,\" so that you have a blueprint for how to get to a sexy state of mind\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e Written with scientific rigor, humor, and compassion, Nagoski shows us what great sex can look like, how to create it in our \u003ci\u003eown\u003c\/i\u003e lives, and what to do when struggles arise.","brand":"WoB","offers":[{"title":"US \/ NEW \/ INGRAM","offer_id":51004364521745,"sku":"NIN9780593500835","price":0.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false},{"title":"US \/ GOOD \/ SBYB","offer_id":51307186716945,"sku":"CIN0593500830G","price":0.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0784\/4072\/6801\/files\/0593500830.jpg?v=1751008608","url":"https:\/\/www.worldofbooks.com\/en-gb\/products\/come-together-book-emily-nagoski-9780593500835","provider":"World of Books ","version":"1.0","type":"link"}