A monogamous relationship can lead to ultimate joy and ultimate sex. But how do you achieve a satisfying sexual relationship that has commitment without boredom, and intimacy that never becomes routine? Masters and Johnson trained sex therapist Dagmar O'Connor has written a practical and witty guide to overcoming the common pitfalls: How to deal with the boredom and backlash of 'I'm in the mood for sex. Why aren't you?' How to bridge the gap between family life and sex life. How to free yourself for sexual activity by booking time for sex. How to take the monotony out of monogamy by cancelling 'performance' sex. How to stop demanding intimacy and let your bodies - not your minds - 'make friends'. How to resist the temptations of infidelity and bring the sexual tingle back to your home sex life. This seminal sex therapy book shows how monogamous sex has the potential to be more thrilling, more varied, more satisfying in every way than any other sexual arrangement you can think of.