Belonging by Toko-Pa Turner

Belonging by Toko-Pa Turner

2017 Nautilus Award Gold Winner

Feel like you don't belong? You're not alone.

The world has never been more connected, yet people are lonelier than ever. Whether we feel unworthy, alienated, or anxious about our place in the world -- the absence of belonging is the great silent wound of our times.

Most people think of belonging as a mythical place, and they spend a lifetime searching for it in vain. But what if belonging isn't a place at all? What if it's a skill that has been lost or forgotten?

With her signature depth and eloquence, Toko-pa maps a path to Belonging from the inside out. Drawing on myth, stories and dreams, she takes us into the origins of our estrangement, reframing exile as a necessary initiation into authenticity. Then she shares the competencies of belonging: a set of ancestral practices to heal our wounds and restore true belonging to our lives and to the world.

Toko-pa Turner is a dreamworker, writer, and teacher from Canada who combines Sufism's mystical heritage with a Jungian approach to dreams. She started the Dream School in 2001, and hundreds of pupils have graduated since then. Toko-pa's practice focuses on restoring the feminine, reciprocity with nature, honoring grief, ritual, and making beauty, and is sometimes referred to as a Midwife of the Psyche. She lives on a small island in British Columbia's Salish Sea.