Family Abolition by M E O'brien

Family Abolition by M E O'brien

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Family Abolition by M E O'brien

What is the nature and role of the family under capitalism? While family is sometimes the only protection from the atomizing domination of the wage, the market and the racial violence of the state, the meaning of 'family' is at best contested, and at worst describes a private horror of personal domination. In this provocative book, M.E. O'Brien uncovers the story of radical proposals to abolish the institution of the family altogether, from the time of Marx and Engels to new queer and transgender communist visions. Going far beyond notions of 'chosen family', O'Brien maps the development of ideas about new forms of interpersonal kinship that can ensure our collective survival, raise children and care for the elderly, alongside new political kinships linking queer, Black and migrant struggles. Drawing inspiration from the rich history of radical abolitionists, present-day examples of new queer communities, Black families navigating their existence and examples of communal social reproduction in extreme political situations, she explains how a concrete, hypothetical institution of a new communist 'family' could be achieved.

'The family as we know it is a limitation to emancipation and imagination'Family Abolition' invites us to think about how community and care could be organized otherwise. It draws together the lessons from centuries of struggle to free the needs of life from the necessities imposed by state and capital.'

-- McKenzie Wark, author of 'The Beach Beneath the Streets'

'An accessibly written distillation of two centuries worth of reproductive class struggle; a revived vision of revolutionary 'beloved community' for an age of climate catastrophe and permanent pandemics. Spread this book around, and start communizing care!'

-- Sophie Lewis, author of ‘Abolish the Family’

'Bringing impressive erudition to a vast subject, O’Brien takes a debate to new frontiers. From Oaxaca to Minneapolis, Family Abolition shows 'insurgent reproduction' preparing a world of 'red love'.'

-- Peter Drucker, author of 'Warped: Gay Normality and Queer Anticapitalism'

'A bracing account of the crisis of the family and an important history of struggles to transcend it. O’Brien is a sensitive and astute guide to the material realities and the impossible ideal of the family--that site of dependency and love, intimacy and violence, coercion and care. This is an essential guide to the critique of the family form and a radical vision of care beyond it.'

-- Katrina Forrester, Associate Professor of Social Sciences, Harvard University

'M. E. O'Brien has gifted us a stunningly urgent and timely book that not only sustains our "freedom dreaming", but also, our concrete efforts at enacting a world where the concept and mechanism of family does not have to be complicated by coercion, domination, and the privatization that creates untenable labor conditions. Through an exhilaratingly accessible narrative, O'Brien moves effortlessly between history, current sociopolitical specificities, and future possibilities to show that communized care is not a far-off fantasy, but rather, a vibrant necessity for current day life-making.'

-- Lara Sheehi, Assistant Professor of Clinical Psychology, George Washington University

'An important work of queer theory which examines family abolition from a generative - not punitive - mindset, asking how can we create a future where we all receive the essential care that is currently doled out only to some of us by the crapshoot lottery of birth?'

-- Hugh Ryan, author of 'When Brooklyn Was Queer'

'Incisively traces the warps and strictures of our embattled history and culture, unleashing a searing yet hopeful paean towards a different set of possibilities. A precious book for anyone trying to understand our current crises and how to transform ourselves and our communities towards justice and wholeness for all.'

-- Hannah Baer, author of 'Trans Girl Suicide Museum'

'Compact but expansive, 'Family Abolition' is an incisive work of history, theory, and imagination. O'Brien locates family abolition as an insurgent tradition deep within revolutionary movements around the world. It is an inspired call to action and a call to community: Come, let us abolish the family--together.'

-- Dan Berger, author of 'Stayed on Freedom: The Long History of Black Power Through One Family's Journey'

'An immensely useful book that will help us not just understand the violence of gender and family relations, but also take action to establish new methods of caring for one another and building survivable social relations... A tool for transformation, skillfully drawing on insurgent histories and contemporary struggles to increase our capacity to build new ways of being together.'

-- Dean Spade, author of 'Mutual Aid: Building Solidarity During This Crisis (and the Next)'

'A vision for the future that draws on insights from both the history of the workers' and black liberation movements, and contemporary struggles worldwide. Both meticulous in its historical account of insurrectionary moments (that unsettled our assumptions about how to care for one another). And daring in providing a strategy for replacing private households with "beloved community", founded around Red Love. Highly recommended to anyone committed to both care and revolt, or bored of household chores.'

-- Jules Gleeson, writer, comedian, historian, co-editor of 'Transgender Marxism'

'An incisive case for the transformative power of collective freeing ourselves from the invasion of kinship and care by capitalist social relations, state-mandated gender and sexuality, and racist hierarchies.'

-- Jules Gill-Peterson, author of 'Histories of the Transgender Child'

'Shedding light on carceral, fascist logics that rule the institution of the nuclear family, this is a profound excavation of the family abolition debates of the 20th century. O'Brien's approach is urgently necessary in our political moment.'

-- Rosie Stockton, Gender Studies, University of California

‘A timely and accessible analysis of family abolition through the Marxist tradition … Family Abolition pushes us to think beyond the solutions of the present by growing the different revolutionary organizations of care already at work in our mass revolts and uprisings. While there remain many questions regarding the details of how to get from here to there, this book makes dreaming of a world we can all live in seem tantalizingly close and possible’

-- ‘Spectre’

'Clarifying and original ... dares to imagine unthinkable possibilities ... a magnificent book'

-- ‘Blindfield Journal’

'Sharp and timely ... Family Abolition offers a compelling provocation to think about the possibilities of human freedom in a post-family world, and how we might achieve them'

-- 'Boston Review'

'O'Brien is one of the most important intellectuals working today. She also happens to be a great, clear writer, which is a whole different skill. Family Abolition takes one of Marxism's scariest concepts and unfolds it step by step, without relying on jargon or bluster or the reader's previous knowledge. By the end, you'll wonder what everyone was so afraid of. A great gift for parents and husbands.'

-- Malcolm Harris, 'Esquire'
M. E. O'Brien writes on gender and communist theory. She co-edits two magazines, Pinko, on gay communism, and Parapraxis, on psychoanalytic theory and politics. Her work on family abolition has been translated into Chinese, German, Greek, French, Spanish, and Turkish. She received her PhD from NYU. She is the co-author of the novel Everything for Everyone: An Oral History of the New York Commune, 2052–2072. She tweets @genderhorizon.
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ISBN 13 9780745343822
ISBN 10 0745343821
Title Family Abolition
Author M E O'brien
Condition Unavailable
Binding Type Paperback
Publisher Pluto Press
Year published 2023-06-10
Number of pages 304
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