When Your Partner Has an Addiction by Christopher Kennedy Lawford
Your partner's addiction takes a toll on both of your lives.That doesn't mean you should turn your back on the person you love.
We've been told that staying with a partner who struggles with addiction--whether it be with drugs, alcohol, or addictive behaviors--means that we're enabling their destructive behavior. That wanting to help them means we're codependent, and that the best thing for both of us is to walk away from the relationship entirely. But is that true?
When Your Partner Has an Addiction challenges the idea that the best chance for recovery--for the addict and their partner--is to walk away. Instead, it makes the revolutionary claim that you, and the love you have for your partner, can be a key part of his or her journey to recovery.
Together, addiction activist and bestselling author Christopher Kennedy Lawford and psychotherapist Beverly Engel, MFT, take a fresh look at addiction and codependency--the latest research on what causes them and what the two have in common. Rather than treat addiction or codependency as disease or weakness, When Your Partner Has an Addiction honors the trauma and shame that often lie at their source and shows you how to use your love to combat that shame, allowing you to more effectively support your partner and heal yourself.
The research proves that, while you cannot "fix" your partner, you can have a positive impact on their recovery. Whether you suffer from codependency, and whether your partner is already in recovery, When Your Partner Has an Addiction provides you with proven techniques and strategies to drastically improve your relationship and help get your partner the help he needs--without leaving and while taking care of yourself in the process.
"This complex issue affects the lives of millions of people and their families every dayChristopher and Beverly should be applauded for approaching a delicate subject with true compassion." --Maria Shriver "One of the best books available on codependency... Here you will learn how to return to compassion and how to back off without backing out of a relationship altogether." --Dr. Drew "When Your Partner Has an Addiction is a godsend for the millions who feel trapped between hope and despair... Lawford writes with elegance, wisdom, and compassion in a guide that can change -- even save -- your life." --David Sheff, author of Beautiful Boy and Clean "A terrific primer for dealing with a practicing addict that respects both partners struggle with codependency. It provides practical solutions to avoid enabling and how to be a compassionate supporter of your loved one." --Darlene Lancer, author of Codependency for Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You
Beverly Engel, LMFT, is a certified marital and family therapist who has worked with survivors of childhood and adult abuse for over thirty years. She is a renowned specialist on emotional abuse recovery and the author of twenty nonfiction books on the topics of emotional and sexual abuse recovery, relationship challenges, and female empowerment. The Emotionally Abused Woman, The Emotionally Abusive Partnership, and Restoring Your Emotional Self are among her works. She has featured on numerous national television shows, including Oprah and Beginning Over, as well as CNN, and her compelling book, The Power of Apologies, was nominated for the Books for a Better Life Award.
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| ISBN 13 | 9781941631867 |
| ISBN 10 | 194163186X |
| Title | When Your Partner Has an Addiction |
| Author | Christopher Kennedy Lawford |
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| Binding Type | Paperback |
| Publisher | BenBella Books |
| Year published | 2016-10-04 |
| Number of pages | 232 |
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