Enthralling... Achingly honest... A fearless, deeply felt and often frightening book...[The Splendid Things We Planned] arrives at a certain undeniable truth about how we are capable of feeling love for people we would never choose to be around. -- Dave Itzkoff - New York Times Book Review
[A] vivid, tender book [written with] humor and frankness...[and] a novelist's flair... A sleek, dramatic, authentically lurid story fueled by a candid fraternal rivalry. -- Janet Maslin - New York Times
Bailey maintains an almost impossible balance between stringent assessment...and a kind of unflappable empathy... The book is as clear-eyed and heartbreaking as any of his acclaimed biographies...yet every bit as compelling. -- Kate Tuttle - Boston Globe
Vibrantly evocative and car-crash engrossing. -- Clark Collis - Entertainment Weekly
Manages to do justice to the tedium of chronic dysfunction without becoming tedious itself...Compelling because of Bailey's emotional acuity as well as his wit, which emerges as an adaptive coping mechanism-a way to survive despair by streaking it with light. -- Leslie Jamison - San Francisco Chronicle
Captivating... Bailey maintains a lacerating tone, and examines with the coolness of a detective the staggering things that we can do to the people we love. -- The New Yorker
A haunting portrait of more than one tortured soul and a heartfelt probing of the limits of brotherly love. -- Brendan Driscoll - Booklist (starred)
One of the most surprising and riveting memoirs of the season. -- Trisha Ping - BookPage
Very entertaining [and] immensely enjoyable-but also profoundly, persuasively sad. Like Mary Karr or David Sedaris, Bailey doesn't try to manufacture an answer to the questions posed by his family's failings. -- Elyse Moody - Elle
It seems fitting that biographer Bailey tells the story of his own life by chronicling his brother Scott's alcoholism and drug addiction... [His] story captures the contradictions and tensions that simmer just below the surface of the family...and Bailey tells it wonderfully, in a tragicomic tone that slowly reveals the true depths to which his older brother has sunk. -- Publishers Weekly
This fine and haunting memoir touches the spot where family, responsibility, and helplessness converge. It's not a pretty place, but boy has Blake Bailey made it memorable. The Splendid Things We Planned is as forceful and revealing as any of the author's excellent biographies, and that's really saying something. -- David Sedaris
A brother's lament, a hard-won, clear-eyed view of one family's tortured history, The Splendid Things We Planned is everything we hope for in a modern memoir. Blake Bailey's triumph here is both personal and literary: a beautiful book, rising out of the ruins. -- Dani Shapiro
An extraordinary memoir, written with the love and rage of a brother and son, and controlled with the skill of a master biographer. -- Geoff Dyer
One of the most sensitive, intelligent and affecting books I've read in a long time. The Splendid Things We Planned is the story of an American family, and of two sons whose lives went in very different directions. Though a memoir, it is, perhaps unsurprisingly, reminiscent of the fiction of Bailey's former subjects Richard Yates and John Cheever in its compassion, its lack of sentimentality and the rich, detailed prose in which it is written. -- Adelle Waldman
Blake Bailey's remarkable memoir...is a reminder that the best books (fiction or otherwise) impart a sense of shared experience, and to read them is to participate in humanity, not retreat from it. ... He has also done for [his brother] what he did for John Cheever: He has written a person to life so that others might know him, too. -- Gregg LaGambina - The Onion A.V. Club
Splendid ... often laugh-out-loud hilarious ... [Bailey has] discovered an accessible and smart tragicomic tone for his family's tale. -- Debra Gwartney - The Oregonian
