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The Universal Heart Stephanie Dowrick

The Universal Heart par Stephanie Dowrick

The Universal Heart Stephanie Dowrick


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Stephanie Dowrick explores not just our intimate relationships, but also the other key relationships in our life - with family, friends, colleagues and people in our everyday world. She invites us to discover the power we have to create relationships built on an inclusive idea of love.

The Universal Heart Résumé

The Universal Heart: Golden Rules for Successful Relationships Stephanie Dowrick

What might it take to open to a life that's drenched in love? In a world ruled by notions of scarcity, how might we discover that the more freely we give love, the more we have to give? Might peace of mind follow if we could think more about how to be loving than about our hungry dreams of how love might save us? We take seriously almost everything but love. We improve our skills in almost everything except how to give and receive more freely within our relationships. We ask each other constantly what we do for a living, not how well we live. We move our attention away from the people we love for years at a time. And we wonder why the relationships we intended to value and honour break down or disappear. An absence of love is somethng that countless people experience on a daily basis. They may call it loneliness, isolation, dissatisfaction or emptiness. Often what it adds up to is that they have become strangers to love - and in significant ways strangers to themselves. A life worth living is a life of love. And anything worth discovering about love will deepen not just one but every one of our relationships. Just as crucially, though, love joins us to the deepest parts of ourselves. It allows us to know that our own life has legitimacy that from our own inner world we can reach out to give willingly to other people. And receive what they can give to us. In The Ultimate Heart Stephanie Dowrick explores not just our most intimate relationships, but also the other key relationships of our life - with family, friends, children, ex-partners, colleagues and people in our everyday world. She invites us to discover the power we have to create relationships built on a rich, generous and inclusive idea of love!

The Universal Heart Avis

Psychotherapist Dowrick's Golden Rules for Successful Relationships (her subtitle) explores love as an endlessly self-replenishing resource available to all who practice giving and receiving it more freely. Although dauntingly wordy (with reams of 'how to' advice at the end of each chapter and case histories within), it is a worthwhile and stimulating volume filled with therapeutic insights and common sense. Its subheadings make it more manageable to dip into: why abandonment is devastating, for example, or the aggression which blights lives. Its constant message is to roll away the illusions of our own helplessness and cultivate self-love and love of others.

À propos de Stephanie Dowrick

Stephanie Dowrick is a psychotherapist and has published several non-fiction works - INTIMACY AND SOLITUDE, FORGIVENESS AND OTHER ACTS OF LOVE, and DAILY ACTS OF LOVE, as well as fiction. She founded The Women's Press and is still Chair. She lives in Australia.

Sommaire

Part 1 Love generously: live as a loving person; receive what others have to offer; release love from the limits of the past; acceptance expresses love; love can be given freely; open to self-love; extend your capacity to love; express care and respect in all your relationships; deepen your self-assurance; clear the air with positive change; discover how effectively you can help yourself; risk love!; how to love generously. Part 2 Know what's going on: in search of new insights; know your own mind; face difficulties with good heart; move into mindfulness; experience the world through your body; know you are making choices; respect boundaries and autonomy; tolerate uncertainty; let your ideals support your life; the past can confuse the present; grow in wisdom and good humour; unlock your heart; how to know what's going on. Part 3 Live encouragingly: your thoughts shape your life; check your habits of mind; interpret events positively; your thoughts influence your feelings; create your happiness; trust your capacity for survival; make it easy for others to love you; value your life - and yourself; silence your complaints - for love's sake; express your pleasure and concern; you can affect others positively; open to what you want from life; how to live encouragingly; teaching the skills of self-encouragement - Jim's story. Part 4 Trust others: discover the spaciousness of trust; trust and love go together; a new freedom to trust; trust yourself as well as others; assume the best - always; value and trust your own experiences; encompass separateness and difference; trust, fidelity and loyalty; forgiveness in your own time; mutual understanding grows with trust; maturity and wellbeing are the gifts of trust; sexual attraction can confuse you; trust in the richness of your existence; how to trust others; give others the benefit of the doubt - and yourself - Margaret's story. Part 5 Listen carefully: people are hungry to be heard; listening is the key to intimacy and healing; careful listening at home and work; men can listen; relationships need stimulation and kindness; learning to listen; value empathy; simple changes, great results; moving in and out of careful listening; respect boundaries; new skills on the run; listen inwardly; how to listen carefully; listening when no one feels heard - Victoria and Carey's story; how to complain effectively; how to hear complaints, express regrets, keep your power. Part 6 Value truth as your ally: beyond good intentions; use love as your reference point; essential truths can be rediscovered; do what needs to be done; the truth of loving kindness; putting resentments aside; when love blinds you; go back to basics; shared values deepen trust; sex and truth; celebrate difference; find your path; putting someone else first; finding integrity and wholeness; how to value truth as your ally. Part 7 Light up your shadow: look around to catch your shadow; check out your assumptions; unconscious demands can wreck a re

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The Universal Heart: Golden Rules for Successful Relationships Stephanie Dowrick
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